With every new step in a BDSM/power-exchange relationship, there’s an internal evaluation that has to happen. not just a character in a book who we can make think or feel whatever we want them to) there’s a whole new level of adjustment that has to happen. Am I right? (Maybe, maybe not, that’s kind of the point of this AMA!)Įither way, that’s what spawned today’s Ask Me Anything, because whenever you get into a real-life BDSM situation, and it actually means YOU are going to be doing these things (i.e. Many of you might be having a similar reaction to what I did imagining your Dom checking in on your daily food and exercise regimen. Her Dom suggested that she allow him to take over her diet and exercise habits because she’d been struggling to hold herself to it, and she had asked in the past if they’d like to take some of that power-exchange out of the house/bedroom and into more daily life type things (but had not discussed diet or exercise at that time). ![]() I’m not breaking any confidences, but the basic conversation came up because we both have Doms that like to push our limits, and in a similar fashion most of that power-exchange is reserved for in the home/bedroom. Q: How far is too far in letting your Dom have control?Ī: Well, first things first, let me give a little framework to this discussion so you know what inspired this Ask Me Anything. ![]() Curious what the #AskMeAnything is? Check out the official AMA page on my site over here. ![]() It’s Ask Me Anything time again! Today, I’m covering a topic that came up in a chat with one of my friends who also “lives the lifestyle”.
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